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Monthly Archives: December 2009

Now for the good gifts…

Most of us create high expectations for the New Year, planning to make appropriate changes to have more of whatever we feel was lacking in 2009. Maybe we want more peace of mind, or money, or companionship, or a job that offers less stress or just a job period. Maybe we want to lose the [...]

Watch out for the lollipop!

“Beware the lollipop of mediocrity. Lick once and you suck for life.”
Sounds like something out of a bad fortune cookie, right? I read that proverb recently and it reminded me that as we go into the New Year with high expectations and plans to create positive change, looking for ways to be more resilient [...]

Can we really snap out of it?

Ever felt mentally stuck? No matter how much you try to focus on what you want your mind ignores you and dwells on the negative, on what you’re worried about? There have been times I’ve tried to focus on what I wanted to accomplish and my mind felt like I was mentally swimming through concrete [...]

And the blame goes to?

Have you ever found it easier to blame someone or something other than yourself? I certainly have. For example if my relationship isn’t going as planned, it has to be his fault for not being a good enough communicator. And if there’s tension between business associates, it’s always because “they” are not really seeing [...]