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Monthly Archives: March 2010

Compassion instead of judging

Whether you’ve read any of my blogs before, or are just reading for the first time, I often speak about the very interesting, often misunderstood type of individual I’ve labeled the Judge. This is the Type A no nonsense, cut-to-the-chase kind of person who gets the job done, and unfortunately has been known to [...]

Of course she understood me, didn’t she?

According to George Bernard Shaw, “the biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.”
How often are we absolutely sure that we were crystal clear about what we said, only to discover the other person thought something entirely different?
I’ve missed meetings where we were sitting in two different offices or [...]

Using this philosophy, everyone wins!

In one of my recent seminars we were talking about the power of using all the Omni-linguistic tools to really build relationships, and we had two sides of the room disagreeing about when does one stop being authentic if you start speaking to someone, not in the way you would prefer, but in the way [...]

Can you imagine if a sign really flashed…

The other day after finishing a program on Omni-linguistics, one of the attendees came up to me and said she had a great idea. “Everyone,” she said with conviction, “should wear a wrist band (noting a specific color) each day that shows the language they are going to speak that day; how they want to [...]